Only now, after eight months, the
negotiations between the Maoists and the Alliance of All Parties of
Nepal have led to an agreement. While the representatives of both sides
did not budge an inch for a long time, the rebels used the opportunity
to gain a foothold in Kathmandu und now they rule daily life in the
city. Their organizing ability - something that is not common in Nepal
- is their major advantage. They free the city from the stinking garbage
that litters every street and alley. Within one hour they can paralyze
Kathmandu whenever they want to protest against anything. They garnered
the support of a large part of the population und whatever actions they
decide to undertake, will work out smoothly.
According to the recently signed agreement 85 of 330 seats of the interim
parliament, which will be in session soon, will be allotted to the bigger
conservative party of the former Prime Minister Koirala. 73 seats each
go to the Maoists and the official communist party, while the remaining
seats will be divided among the remaining five parties. After the formation
of this parliament an interim government will be elected. The Maoists
demand that, after the elections which are scheduled for June 2007,
their 35.000 soldiers should be incorporated into the regular Nepalese
army. Until then the rebels will remain in their 28 camps that are scattered
over 7 provinces of the country. Under the supervision of the UN their
weapons will be locked away in containers, yet the rebels themselves
will keep the keys of those containers! The Nepalese commoners celebrate
peace but the intellectuals of the country regard this agreement as
rather unstable, the more so as no real decision to develop the country
has been announced so far.
Thanks to our project the inhabitants of Children's World and those
of the slums are safeguarded against extreme poverty. Yet fate dealt
us a massive blow when we had to organize terminal palliative care for
our Pramod, who was dying from Leukaemia. This was the darkest moment
in the history of Children's Aid Nepal. It is painful enough to see
elder people go, especially one's own parents, but to watch the death
of such a beautiful and sweet 16 year old boy, who was like a son for
those among us who are women, proved to be a heavy blow which even now,
four months after, is hard to cope with. His body was cremated in the
traditional way, unfortunately before the eyes of impertinent tourists
who filmed and photographed the ceremony from the other bank of the
river as if it was a show. His brother Prakash wanted to have him buried,
but both the Christian and Muslim cemeteries of the Kathmandu Valley
refused to accept a Hindu among their dead.
Of course at Children's World we are fooling around again as before,
of course we laugh again, but nothing is as it was before.
We pamper our completely paralyzed Raj Kumar, who although he doesn't
speak about it, knows very well that he might be the next one who has
to go. Regarding the donations for the blood cell separator, please
refer to the protocol of the annual meeting of our members. Of recent,
there are only 25 smaller children left at Children's World and the
administration of the house lies in the hands of women only. Meena is
responsible for the children's house, while Sija proceeds with the slum
project with immense commitment.
In this present letter we wish to give you a survey of what has become
of all of "our" children of the past 17 years. Apart from
the 25 younger ones, who still attend school, we also support some of
the older ones financially by paying the high tuition fees for them.
To cover the rest of their expenses they have to work themselves.
Here is a list of our former students:
26 - Deepak Lopchan, 23, after finishing higher secondary school and
college he is now a student of psychology in Thailand.
27 - Santosh Rumba, 22, passed SLC (School Leaving Certificate) and
college and now studies at the aviation academy in Calcutta, India,
with a view to become a "Ground Operation Officer".
28 - Kusum Lama, 22, SLC and college, student of business administration
29 - Hareram Chaudhary, 23, SLC, he is a skilled electrician by now
and helps with the slum work.
30 - Saroj Battarai, 18, SLC, finished an apprenticeship as steward
in several five-star-hotels.
31 - Shree Krishna Kharel, 22, SLC and college, also a student at the
aviation academy in Calcutta.
32 - Maya Lama Gole Tamang, 18, college student and training to become
a lab assistant.
33 - Raj Kumar Shrestha, 22, completely paralyzed, yet can read and
speak English fluently.
34 - Subash Bhatta, 17, SLC, arts student who during daytime learns
Buddhist painting techniques.
35 - Pramod Thapa, 16, just before passing his SLC he passed away.
36 - Prakash Thapa, 23, SLC and college, student of computer engineering,
together with Meena he does the bookkeeping of our Children's World.
37 - Menuka Dhamala, 21, SLC and college, training for nurse.
38 - Renu Yonyan, 23, SLC and college, studies pharmacy for three years.
40 - Goma Rai, 19, blind, passed SLC and college and is now a student
of social welfare work.
41 - Devu Dahal, 23, SLC, college and BA, just starting his MA studies
in tourist management.
42 - Raj K. Shrestha, 20, SLC, college and BA as computer engineer,
continues studies for MA.
43 - Tenzing Norbu Lama, 22, SLC and college, just about to finish his
third year in physiotherapy-study.
44 - Hari Magar, 19, SLC, just finishing his studies as a "health
assistant", which allows him to work in remote villages as a medical
45 - Maya Sherpa, 24, SLC and college, works as a teacher.
46 - Pema Lama, 26, SLC and college, studied computer science and now
works as an apprentice in a company for graphic design in Germany.
47 - Furgel Lama, 24, blind, has got a scholarship and makes his MA
48 - Giriraj Adhikari, 26, SLC and college as well as university degree,
since he couldn't get a job so far, he studies for six more months at
the aviation academy in Calcutta to become a flight attendant.
The following of our former students
now completely live by themselves:
49 - Bikram Rana, 25, SLC and university, one year apprenticeship in
various hotels in France, continues his studies there for another year
at his own expense by working as a waiter.
50 - Dinesh Lopchan, SLC and college, works in India, married, one child.
51 - Krishna Yonjan, 27, SLC, works in an employment agency.
52 - Rajiv Shrestha, 28, SLC and college, he is the manager of the Duty-Free-Shop
at the airport of Doha, Qatar.
53 - Bishnu Yonjan, 22, SLC, he now works as sales assistant in Saudi
54 - Ram Pukhar Sharma, 24, SLC and college, studied computer science,
teacher in a computer school, regularly helps us to maintain our computer
55 - Sangita Lama, 22, SLC, works as an elementary school teacher.
56 - Sabina Kharel, 22, SLC, concierge in a hotel.
57 - Sija Shrestha, 26, SLC and college, finished classes in social
work, educational science and health care; she runs and directs our
project in the slums of Kathmandu with great success.
58 - Shanta Rumba, 26, married, one child, since one year now works
in a nursing home in Israel.
59 - Liza Shrestha, 22, works in the nursery school of our slum project.
60 - Rita Rai, 26, SLC, college, married, one child, teacher.
61 - Karma Bal Lama, 27, SLC and college, works as a karate teacher
62 - Karma Yonjan, 21, SLC, works in a supermarket.
63 - Dhandu Yonjan, 24, SLC, sales assistant in Singapore.
64 - Bir Bahadur Lama, 27, SLC, married, one child, security officer.
65 - Baghat Tamang, 24, SLC and college, for four years now he has been
laboriously working his way upwards in the Nepalese army.
66 - Kabita Rai, 24, married, two children, works at a nursery.
67 - Manju Bhattarai, 22, SLC and college, elementary school teacher.
68 - Muna Lama, 23, SLC and college, elementary school teacher.
69 - Sabitri Poudel, 16, blind, has been taken over by an organisation
for the blind and continues her schooling.
70 - Dilip Chaudhary, 23, SLC and college, attends classes for computer
hardware and lives together with friends.
71 - Umda Sharma, 22, SLC, nurse, she never got in touch with us again.
72 - Dipesh Lopchan, 17, left school and Children's World just before
the SLC, lives with his sick mother, a sluggish fellow.
73 - Durga Chettri, 20, SLC, vanished completely from our sight.
74 - Rita Chettri, 23, married, two children, is said to live in Southern
75 - Santosh Acharya, 21, began several professional trainings, unfortunately
betook to drugs and is said to somehow "survive" in Goa, India.
In addition 10 of the 15 girls
of our three years project for alphabetization und tailoring run a small
repair shop in their village to make ends meet. Of the others we lost
sight, except for:
86 - Nanu, 24, who completed high school and college on her own and
now is assistant to a Swiss relief organisation that drills wells and
builds a school in her village.
Quite for sure none of our "children" has become a VIP, but
if we consider how underfed they were in their early childhood, we should
rejoice, that all except for three have completed higher secondary school
and most of them even college. Without your support many would have
died, since the rate of childhood mortality remains high in Nepal. Our
"children" may not be rich, but they can live a dignified
life and - with three exceptions - they continue to keep heartfelt contact
with Children's World and are full of gratitude towards us. We give
the same opportunities to the younger generation that now lives in the
house, but we will not accept any more children.
In future we shall focus on the slum work, where we already achieved
quite a lot. It is a laborious work that pays off greatly, especially
regarding the health of the 150 children. Since they get food rich in
vitamins and minerals on a regular basis they are brighter at school
and achieve better results now. Hygiene remains our biggest problem,
but Sija and her aides regularly call the mothers for meetings and try
to prevail on them in this regard. This time it was the nurse Sweccha
who went to them and pointed out to them the most important items of
daily hygiene. The women always listen most attentively, but seem to
forget what they learnt immediately after. Sija feels that only regular
and sensitive work in every single hut would bring about any change.
Currently she is very concerned with a case of child abuse. An organisation
specialised in this matter brought the case to court: The man, who has
been violating his 12 year old daughter for months, is now in prison.
The girl is very disturbed, badly hurt and will by no means leave her
mother, who all these months has been her silent witness to the abuse.
The child kept silent out of shame and the mother out of fear from her
husband, who threatened to beat them both, in case they talked to outsiders
about his crime. Sija is traumatized by the fact that one of her students
suffered and kept silent for such a long time so that we had to comfort
her and give her the strength to continue her work.
All children at Children's World, who enjoy such a good life, as well
as the mothers and children of the slums have asked us to convey to
you, who help them to lead a much better life than most other Nepalese,
their warmest thanks. We also want to express our heartfelt thanks and
wish you a Merry Christmas and a good and prosperous New Year 2007!
All our best wishes to you!